OPINIONS AND INFORMATION ON LEADERSHIP AND LEADERSHIP DEVELOPMENT BY SHERRI LYNN DUNIK --- "It's not just about the talking...I want you to DO something better. I give you useful insights, and inspire you to act."
Sunday, December 25, 2011
Monday, December 19, 2011
Paprika, Garnish or Main Ingredient?
In
the Pilot Winter Log I wrote about my grandmother teaching me how to make
Paprikis Chicken.
Paprika
is intimately associated with Hungarian cuisine especially paprikash and
goulash. Many spiced sausages incorporate it, including the Spanish chorizos.
Paprika is often used as a garnish, sprinkled on eggs, hors d’ouvres and salads
for color. It spices and colors cheeses and cheese spreads, and is used in
marinades and smoked foods. It can be incorporated in the flour dusting for
chicken and other meats. Many Spanish, Portuguese and Turkish recipes use
paprika for soups, stews, casseroles and vegetables. In India, paprika is
sometimes used in tandoori chicken, to give the characteristic red color.
Paprika is an emulsifier, temporarily bonding with oil and vinegar to make a
smooth mixture for a salad dressing. This sweet and mild to pungent and fiery
spice is a favorite of mine and many of the dishes prepared in Hungary call for
paprika as a main ingredient!
Garnish
or a main ingredient? Some would never
think of this spice as a main ingredient, using it only to garnish their
deviled eggs. They only use the spice
for the color and not the unique flavor it has.
Paprika deteriorates quickly, so therefore, when it is only used occasionally
as a garnish it just sits on a shelf loosing its zest.
As
a leader are you allowing your team to deteriorate, loosing its zest? Leadership expert Warrne Bennis said, “The
leader finds greatness in the group, and he or she helps the members find it in
themselves.” You team can consist of
sweet and mild or pungent fiery people.
But if you do not utilize their gifts they will loose their zest. It can cause chaos for the group.
Leaders
need to see the special gifts everyone has and help showcase the talents they
bring to the team. If you have a highly
energetic, innovative thinker on your team, you would not want that person in a
role such as secretary. Why? Well club secretaries take the minutes of the
meeting (they do not participate in open discussions). You want your innovative thinkers to lead
discussions and bring ideas to the table.
That person would have a more effective role as a director as a first
year officer.
List
the names of your members. Next to each
name write what that person contributes.
If they do not have a clear role or function, then write what you
believe their potential to be. Look for
holes and duplications and begin looking for people to fill those holes. Be prepared to challenge current members with
potential to rise to your expectations.
Great
teams do not come together by accident.
As a leader you are continually developing your membership. Each member should be the main ingredient in
the task, not a garnish. Spend time with
them to mentor and develop. Give them
extra responsibility and place higher expectations on them. If there are people on your list who add no
value or bring membership down, you should consider moving them out of a leadership
position.
Remember
your membership is the main ingredient to success not a garnish.
And
for those of you wondering how to make my grandma’s Paprikás csirke…
Chicken Paprikas
(Csirkepaprikas)
Every country household had a yard full of chickens. Chicken dishes that could be slow cooked on the stove for supper were plentiful and cheap to make. Paprikas was a weekly dish for supper. A pot of dumplings, and perhaps a platter of pickled hungarian peppers and a loaf of crusty home baked bread was all that was need for ones well being. Every meal was eaten with gusto.
- 1 large onion chopped
- 4 Tbsp. shortening, corn oil or lard
- 3 Tbsp. Hungarian paprika
- 1/8 Tsp. black pepper or whole pepper corns
- 2 Tsp. salt
- 4 to 5 lbs. chicken disjointed, use legs, thighs, breast and back
for best flavor
- water
Sauce
- ½ stick shortening
- ½ cup flour
Take all juice from chicken pour into flour mixture – a little at a time (add water to thin out). Then add sour cream, salt, pepper
Dumplings
- 4 eggs
- 4 cups of flour
- 1T salt
- ½ cup water
Add
dumplings to chicken sauce.
Monday, December 12, 2011
Game Plans for Winning at Life
My favorite movie is Rudy. If you are not familiar with the movie it is based on the true story of Rudy Ruettiger. He grew up in a small town, with his father working in the steel mill. He was always told that he would follow his father and older brother and work in the mill. But he had a dream. He was half the size of the typical Notre Dame football player and his grades were too low to be admitted as a student. But he did not let everyone who said he "couldn't" determine his future. He never gave up on his dream.
I have learned from Rudy that when you set your mind on a goal, and carry that passion with you everyday, dreams really do come true. If you put your mind to a goal you really can accomplish anything.
Below is a list of Rudy's Insights on winning at life. Notice how much he writes about having dreams and making them goals.
Be the person you want to be. “Make the decision to take action and move closer to your Dream. Create daily success habits and surround yourself with information that will empower and inspire you.”
Use anger in a positive way to get results. “Anger is a normal reaction. It’s what you do with anger that makes a difference in your life … direct your anger towards a goal … use anger in a positive way to get results … from anger comes determination … comes triumph.”
It starts with a Dream. “Visualize your Dream and make a commitment. Having a Dream is what makes life exciting. Never underestimate the power of a Dream. It will change your life. A Dream gives you the ability to determine your future.”
Eliminate the confusion. “Find mentors who encourage you. The right information will eliminate confusion. Visualize exactly what you want to be … and focus on that … believe in yourself and don’t let anything stop you. Reinforce your Dream every day with positive information from tapes, books, and mentors. Each day you will get closer to your Dream. Eliminate the confusion and fears, and make it happen.”
The greater the struggle, the greater the victory. “Most people allow struggles and fear of failure to stop them. The key is to learn from your struggles and move on. Failures will make you stronger and give you the information you need to reach your Dream. Struggle will prepare you for success. Without struggle there is no success.”
I have learned from Rudy that when you set your mind on a goal, and carry that passion with you everyday, dreams really do come true. If you put your mind to a goal you really can accomplish anything.
Below is a list of Rudy's Insights on winning at life. Notice how much he writes about having dreams and making them goals.
By Rudy Ruettiger
Insight #1
Be the person you want to be. “Make the decision to take action and move closer to your Dream. Create daily success habits and surround yourself with information that will empower and inspire you.”
Insight #2
Use anger in a positive way to get results. “Anger is a normal reaction. It’s what you do with anger that makes a difference in your life … direct your anger towards a goal … use anger in a positive way to get results … from anger comes determination … comes triumph.”
Insight #3
It starts with a Dream. “Visualize your Dream and make a commitment. Having a Dream is what makes life exciting. Never underestimate the power of a Dream. It will change your life. A Dream gives you the ability to determine your future.”
Insight #4
Eliminate the confusion. “Find mentors who encourage you. The right information will eliminate confusion. Visualize exactly what you want to be … and focus on that … believe in yourself and don’t let anything stop you. Reinforce your Dream every day with positive information from tapes, books, and mentors. Each day you will get closer to your Dream. Eliminate the confusion and fears, and make it happen.”
Insight #5
The greater the struggle, the greater the victory. “Most people allow struggles and fear of failure to stop them. The key is to learn from your struggles and move on. Failures will make you stronger and give you the information you need to reach your Dream. Struggle will prepare you for success. Without struggle there is no success.”
Insight #6
Follow your passion instead of the dollar. “There’s nothing wrong with making money … but, it’s important to focus on your passion instead of the dollar. For me, decisions based on my passion brought me closer to my Dream, while decisions based only on money took me further away. If you focus on what really fulfills you, you will have success. The dollar alone does not bring happiness.”
Insight #7
Excuses will kill your Dream. “What we’re really talking about here is commitment. Until you make a commitment to your Dream, it’s not really a Dream … it’s just another fantasy full of excuses. Fantasies don’t come true because they’re not real, we’re not committed to them. When we make commitments, we eliminate excuses and they become Dreams … and Dreams are definitely real.”
Excuses will kill your Dream. “What we’re really talking about here is commitment. Until you make a commitment to your Dream, it’s not really a Dream … it’s just another fantasy full of excuses. Fantasies don’t come true because they’re not real, we’re not committed to them. When we make commitments, we eliminate excuses and they become Dreams … and Dreams are definitely real.”
Insight #8
Prepare for your Dream. “Preparation is what comes from struggle. Knowledge comes from preparation. These are the elements that pave the road to your Dream. If we do not prepare we will not succeed. Set your goals and pursue your Dreams with all your heart. If you miss a goal, don’t quit, reset it! You just need to learn more … step by step you will win!”
Insight #9
Focus on your Dream and Never Quit. It is always too soon to quit. If you quit, you can’t succeed. By achieving your Dream you will be an inspiration to others. You will set the example and make an enormous impact on the world. Make it happen!”
Insight #10
Always have a Dream. “Dreams give us energy to go to new levels. Dreams change lives … the power of life is in your Dreams!”
Rudy Ruettiger, from the TRISTAR hit movie RUDY, is an author and inspirational speaker and now resides in Las Vegas. Learn more about Rudy by visiting his website.
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